The not-so-great news is that everyone feels creatively stuck or blocked sometimes, no matter how experienced they are. The most exciting thing about creativity is that it’s wild and unpredictable – because that’s how exciting new things are made – but that can be the most frustrating thing about it too.
But the good news is that there are plenty of specific, practical things you can do to fight writer’s block. And the great news is that experiencing writer’s block nearly always says more about your attitude towards being creative than your actual ability to create. So if you change your mind and change your attitude, you might just unlock a ton of creativity you didn’t know you had inside.
Let’s talk about five ways to do that – both within the fifteen challenges in this book and in everything else you create.
- Lower Your Standards
I know. I get it. You want everything you write to be the best thing ever. You want every note and every word to touch hearts, change lives and wow literally everyone who hears them. You wish you had a creative Midas touch that could turn every song you ever touched into gold – no exceptions.
Because, honestly, most songwriters – myself included – feel like that sometimes. And that’s not necessarily bad or wrong.
We want all those things because we have standards, we have values, we have taste – and that’s a good thing. No, a great thing.
But the trouble is, creativity doesn’t work like that.
99% of the time, creative ideas don’t come out perfect the first time. They come out messy and wild and disorganized, and it’s your job as an artist to organize, edit and polish those ideas until they come as close to perfect as you can get them.
More often than not, you have to write the bad, half-assed version before you can write the good, fully-assed version. The only way to find out which things do work is to try tons of things that don’t. It’s a gauntlet you have to pass through on each new creative project: try, fail, fail better, fail better until you succeed.
And that means if you’re such a perfectionist you can’t tolerate even one OK or average idea, you’re not going to get very far as an artist. Sure, blank pages might look pretty, but they’re nowhere near as fun as pages (or screens) with stuff on them. And pretty or not, you can’t fix a blank page – though you can fix a page with average ideas on it.
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So as weird and counterintuitive as it might sound, that means having too high standards early on in the creative process won’t do you any favors. In fact, it’s probably going to make things harder.
So next time you’re feeling stuck or blocked, there’s a simple way out of it: lower your standards, just for now. No one is ever truly blocked, everyone always has some kind of ideas – only, if you’re in the habit of saying ‘no, not good enough’ to every idea you have, you’ll end up feeling blocked pretty quickly.
If you can’t seem to get any ideas down that you like, then don’t. Get an idea down that you don’t like. Then try to turn it into an idea you do like. Or try some other idea. And repeat.
There is a time and a place for high standards. That’s later in the process. That’s the stage when you’ve put plenty of ideas on the table and earned the privilege of picking out the most exciting ones and trying to polish them up into something really great.
But until you get there, the best thing you can do is keep your standards low and your mind open. You might miss a gem of an unpolished idea if you don’t. Soon enough it’ll be time to think about how to cut those gems so they really shine – but for now you’ve got to trust the process, compadre, and just get those ideas down.
- Start Simple, Start Small
There’s a simple principle in art and in life which I guess you could call ‘The Law of Getting Shit Done’. It goes like this:
Action – no matter how small – creates confidence.
Every failure to act – no matter how small – creates fear.
It’s a spiral you’re constantly going up or down in, all the time. Either you’re doing things and gaining in confidence, or you’re not doing things and losing confidence and letting fear creep in instead.
And the truth is, exactly what you do matters less than the fact that you do something – anything. By starting to act – by trying something – you start climbing up the spiral and gaining in confidence, which makes it easier to do more, which brings you more confidence, which makes it easier to do more, yada, yada, yada. And all you have to do is start.
So if you’re feeling stuck or blocked, give yourself permission to start simple, start small. Maybe you don’t know what your song’s entire groove is going to sound like, but you could start by trying out a rhythm or four chords or a particular synth sound. Maybe you don’t know what your song’s entire lyric will be like, but you could start by trying out different titles. And maybe, just maybe, before you do any of those things it’s worth taking a step back and figuring out, you know, what your song is even about in the first place.
Nobody’s first word is ‘monokerophobia’. Nobody learns to high jump before they learn to walk. And your next song is the same – sometimes you can’t write the part you want to write until you’ve done the groundwork you have to do to be able to write it. Sometimes you’re just not ready to create the part you want to create, so you have to create some other part first.
So give yourself permission to take the path of least resistance, whatever that may be. Give yourself permission to trust the process. Give yourself permission to accept that songwriting is hard. Then give your song permission to evolve step by step, idea by idea and even word by word or chord by chord.
One great way to put this into practice – especially if you’re feeling really stuck – is to promise yourself you’ll just write for 20 minutes without giving up, no matter what.
The first ten minutes might feel like agony, but – as you know – lower your standards and get some ideas down anyway.
Then, usually somewhere around minute 12 or 14, chances are you’ll come up with something that excites you, just enough. It might not knock your socks off, it might not be perfect or polished, but it’ll excite you, just enough. It’ll capture your attention and maybe your imagination, just enough.
So you’ll play around with it. You’ll try to perfect or polish it. And then you’ll keep playing around with it, or play around with one of the ideas it leads to. Then soon enough you’re 20 minutes in, having completely forgotten about all that resistance you were feeling less than half an hour ago.
Another great technique when you’re working on a project over a few days or a month is to intentionally leave yourself something simple and small to do first when you come back to write – something you know isn’t going to give you a headache when you pick things up again. That way, it’ll be much easier to slide back into writing and hit the ground running.
But whatever you do, remember the principle: it’s better to take one tiny step than to stay exactly where you are. That’s how you build your creative confidence and how you get moving on any creative project.
Make some bold, decisive choices – no matter how simple or how small – and see where they take you. If you don’t like the way those choices turn out, just go back and try some different ones.
Then, in a nutshell, just keep doing that until your song is done, and voilà – where there once was writer’s block, there’s now a song instead. All because you started somewhere – even somewhere super simple, or super small.